Tuesday, July 15, 2008

July Babe celebration in Office!

Again. come to the second year we celebrate together. Since we already getting older.. omg!

July Babe Celebration!

hohoho.. come to july already.. im so happy! coz i can celebrate my birthday with mine friend....
we are so lucky that we willing to drink 5L tea tarik on this year! Since last few year we are try to have it ... but also not successful. But this year... different! we got a new member! Ms. PeckhonG haha.. her birthday on 10th jul! and so gam that day we all also free for the dinner.. thus we have decide to go wong kok cha chan teng... drink teh tarik lo! wahaha...long time din't gather with them... but we also still very crazy. the problem is.. darren san, ask he come to join. but he give a lost excuse thus he also din't join us and also yennee also din't join us! cause she at singapore.. im so miss u!

Monday, July 14, 2008

天长地久vs曾经拥有

艳婷-传来的文字,不妨发表你的意见:
现代人爱情观'不在乎天长地久,只在乎曾经拥有'
.若是"曾经拥有"信徒,那并非爱而是占有,占有和真爱,相差很远!
"曾经拥有"过多少东西:车子、名牌、名誉等,这些东西你曾经对它们付出真爱?
"曾经拥有"的爱情像罐头,有expiry date的,过期了就要丢掉!
那你对"曾经拥有"这字有何看法?你觉得永远又是什么?

世上很多事都没有标准答案,一体可以有两面,甚至多面,
临床心理医师分析试婚者的结论就是:
如果要用试婚(或同居)来尝试大家可否生活在一起,既是大家还没做好“万全准备”展开人生另一个阶段的考验,心态上还是有“不合则离”的意图在当中。依据调查数字显示,经过试婚阶段的夫妻,离婚比率更高。因为大家压根就抱着“试试看”的心态。
就像今天这个话题,天长地久与否,可能很多人会觉得:
“未必是我的选择喔”
要知道,你有选择和赞同被选择的权利,说得更“白话”一点,从开始你压根就没有在“选择对象”的时候开始执行你“选择”的权利,到了对方选择“不善待”你,你又“选择”默默承受,这样的也行循环,往往外人会指责此人何等“没良心”,但~这不就是你的选择了吗?很多表面上看来“无奈”的赞同,无论背后原由为何,选了就是选了,不能因为你的模棱两可,就把责任推得一干二净,因为你明明有选择的权利,结果你却选择了“被对方选择”。这也是一种选择,不是“没有选择”对吗?
就像很多人试婚的意图原本是想先“学习”相处,但结婚也可以学习学不是吗?问题就在:结婚后已成定局,不能“缩沙”,另一个说法,不就是自己压根就没看好这段关系,也没有“破釜沉舟”的意愿吗?这和一般人原先考虑试婚时思考的部分颇有出入对不?
当然,感情的事如鱼饮水,冷暖自知。每个人当然都有各自的“背后理由”,只是想提醒看官:如果把事情思考清楚,可能会为自己的将来节省很多悔不当初机率,还是强调:择己所爱~~爱己所择。

卉勤共勉之

This is special for sulee (my lovely friend) i hope u read it and get what it means to you. In addition, please don't cry anymore! not worth for it! free come out yamcha to chat chat!
try to start your new life instead of keep waiting he. since he already choose to leave u.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

migraine 偏头痛

偏头痛, 什么是偏头痛?偏头痛就是一边头痛另一边不痛。你知道吗?我痛了好多年了。试过,一个礼拜,几乎每天痛,也有,一个礼拜痛两天就是礼拜六跟日。每吃头痛都会吃padanol. Padanol 就是我的随身药。去哪里都要带。我也有时过几个方法。

1 喝蜜糖
2 喝可乐(coke)
3 洗头
4 睡觉。(也试过睡醒了还是痛,真惨!!T_T"")
5 妈妈又带过我去按骨,按了就比较少痛,但是头一痛,就是要我的命啊!
6 妈妈也有秘方,煮给我跟哥哥吃,可惜没用。
7 按血管神经 (按过后没那么痛,也有点晕晕)

如果,大家有任何秘方,可以留言。谢谢。

Monday, July 7, 2008

Happy Birthday!!!

5th Jul, is mine birthday!! It also my mum, my godmother, my couzin haze and my frn shangx2 (same age), emilyn,pingping and jason birthday!! Wah, so many people birthday in the same day! but is true.. im not joking o..
This year im very happy that my dear give me a small suprise. He have arrange all the thing. And bring me for tea, but the friend is in the shop there already. Then we are chatting and eating over there. Until 12am sharp. The cake is coming out!!! Haha.. so happy saw the cake, is a nice cake. But i don't have a good photograph. Otherwise, sure will take a lot picture. Anyway, im happy and dear thanks for your present and all the arrangment! i really love it! Chua & Ah biao thanks for your piggy bear.. so nice n cute!.


July very ong!

Yeah! come to july ... very happy, coz my birthday is coming...
Here is the person birthday on july.

3rd July
xiao wen (secondary school mate)

4th July
Yong Jeck (secondary senior)
Ah yong (leong niece)

5th July
Kenix (Me), Haze (Cousin), tee chie (mine mother), sor wah (mine 干妈), Shang Shang (primary school mate), emilyn (nicolaa best friend), ping ping (summer friend), jason (alison son) & leong sister in law.

6th July
Samuel! (good in singing.. but oso good in complain!)

10th July
peck Hong (pretty girl)

14th July
Aida (shy girl)

17/19 july (4get dy)
Yu Kuan (sister husband)

23rd July
Sammi ong

24th July
Whitney wong

31st July
lee Zie nee (primary school mate)